Grandmother in search of help

[mizging]

My two 1/2 year old grandson, we've been told, is exhibiting autistic behaviors. They include little or no speech progression and constant humming or singing to self when concentrating or playing. I'm starting to see signs of frustration in him since he can't communicate, and although we have him in an early intervention program, I don't believe his parents are accepting the teachers hints. She's not allowed to diagnos him, but she has told me privately that she'd bet a month's salary that my grandson has autism.

I've been reading as much as I can find on the web and he seems different in the fact that he loves to be cuddled and is a very social child. He hugs everyone he sees. He seems to be very bright in all other aspects, just no speech other than "bye, da-da, yeah, ta-da, and mimicking sneezing."

Can someone relate to these symptoms and are there going to be more changes in store. What can I do to help?

Miz

[AutMom]

Sure, autism is a possibility....It's great that he's in a program - Is that going well?

Do you mean that the teacher is giving hints that he may be autistic, or giving hints on things they can do at home.... If it's the first one, denial is quite common among parents when it comes to autism.

I can't predict the future, but its been a bit of a roller coaster for us, so I'd say changes are in store. Well, sounds like you may already be helping by looking into this. Be supportive...and be sure to listen to the parents as well. Welcome to the group.

[Greenclovers66]

One thing to keep in mind is that all children with Autism are not alike. My son, who is 6, is one of the most social butterflies and most loving children around. However, he most certainly has Autism. I found out from his Early Intervention group as well, even though they couldn't formally diagnose him, they gave me a clue and gave me a direction to look. I then hired a private evaluator and had his evaluation performed so that I knew where he fell on the spectrum and had an idea how to work with him.

If the parents don't want to take the advice, sadly there is nothing anyone can do to make them work with the suggestions that are made.

Good luck! :)

[Bethintx]

Hello. My son is a big-time hugger. Otherwise he's typically autistic.

I don't know what kind of relationship you and your daughter(in-law?), but if he needs the help, the issue should be addressed. Maybe offer to go along to the pediatrician with her on a regular check-up (offer to buy lunch!)and take the doctor aside and note your concerns.

My son was dx'd by a neurologist. I'll be praying for you and your grandson. Keep us informed on what happens.

Anyone? What do you think of my idea?

Bethintx

[AutMom]

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Anyone? What do you think of my idea?

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Lunch sure sounds good!!:D

[evansmom]

[QUOTE=mizging]My two 1/2 year old grandson, we've been told, is exhibiting autistic behaviors. They include little or no speech progression and constant humming or singing to self when concentrating or playing. I'm starting to see signs of frustration in him since he can't communicate, and although we have him in an early intervention program, I don't believe his parents are accepting the teachers hints. She's not allowed to diagnos him, but she has told me privately that she'd bet a month's salary that my grandson has autism.

I've been reading as much as I can find on the web and he seems different in the fact that he loves to be cuddled and is a very social child. He hugs everyone he sees. He seems to be very bright in all other aspects, just no speech other than "bye, da-da, yeah, ta-da, and mimicking sneezing."

Can someone relate to these symptoms and are there going to be more changes in store. What can I do to help?

My son started showing signs ASD as early as 12 months. I explored every other possiblity before accepting my dooctors advise to have evaluated by a pediatric neurologist. I knew in my heart all along that he had autism. I am sure that your son and daughter love your grandson very much and in the end they will accept your advise. keep pushing the issue, early intervention is your grandsons best weapon to becoming as high function as possible. I wish you and your family all the best

Miz[/QUOTE]

[evansmom]

My son started showing signs ASD as early as 12 months. I explored every other possiblity before accepting my dooctors advise to have evaluated by a pediatric neurologist. I knew in my heart all along that he had autism. I am sure that your son and daughter love your grandson very much and in the end they will accept your advise. keep pushing the issue, early intervention is your grandsons best weapon to becoming as high function as possible. I wish you and your family all the best!